“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realise that you control your own destiny.”
– Albert Ellis
if you feel like something isn’t working then the only person that can do anything about it is you. you think you can drift through things without it touching you but that’s not true; stop being surprised when you discover damage when turning it over later.